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My little brother’s wife gave birth today to my first nephew! Hooray!

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Today’s post is about kindness.  Yes, I said kindness.  Now I know what you’re thinking, ‘what does kindness have to do with entrepreneurship?’  I say, ‘a lot.’  To illustrate what I mean, I’m going to use two examples from experiences I had this week.

First example:  What NOT To Do.

Company:  Rainsoft.

Rainsoft provides water softener devices to residences.

My parent’s bought a Rainsoft water filtration system for their house.  Rainsoft installed the system and everything was fine, until their “customer service” gestapo started calling EVERY OTHER DAY.  Not cool.  Not only does this company NOT get that it is unkind to not trust your own customers (conversation goes like this:  “hi, this is so and so from Rainsoft, we’re going to be in your area and wanted to bring you some salt (to replenish…which they already did, and they don’t go through it very fast at all.  Like twice a year speed.)  “uh, we already got some thanks.”  Two days later…same phone call, different customer service rep.  Same problem.)  I feel like calling them and giving their manager a piece of my mind, but instead I’m talking trash online, too bad Rainsoft.  Let’s see if they ever find my post and do any damage control.  I doubt it.

Lesson:  Don’t be mean to your customers, especially in bad times, you will NOT be pleased with the results.

Now, what you should do…

Second example:  What To Do.

Company:  Starbucks

Actually, it’s not Starbucks, but rather an employee of Starbucks, who serves coffee at a Barnes & Noble store I go to on occasion.  This server knew what drink I wanted (after having served me a few days earlier, one time).  No prompting.  She just knew.  And started making it before I even paid (I’m in line behind someone who was taking their sweet time to order, “um… I think I’ll have … um…”).  Knowing what I wanted made my day.  (Forget needing to remember my name, remember my face and my favorite drink and I’m good!)  Not only that, she also made sure to offer me a fresh cookie (when her somewhat oblivious coworker was trying to get me the silly one I asked for after seeing it the window case.  (Hey, I like my chewy cookies!)  So, fresh coffee, fresh cookie, with a smile, and feeling like despite the weather, I’ve had a good day.  That’s service.  That’s kindness.

The kindness revolution is an idea I have for businesses.  “Be nice, it’s good for you!”  You never know if I was a traveling off-duty executive who happened to see your kindness and give you a promotion or hire you (from my competitor)!   Or, to contrast, if I got another complaint about your poor phone manners, I’d fire you, or talk trash about you online – where you can’t erase it…or even find it, haha.

Kindness is between people, but companies that are smart know that their first-line staff are their ambassadors – and treat them with respect.  And train them well.  They teach them to be kind, to show respect for their customers, and serve them well.

So, thank you Starbucks coffee server lady, you made my day.  And when I get a chance I’ll do the same for someone else.

What about you?  Who’s been kind to you in a business setting?  Did you return the favor? Why not spread good cheer all year by practicing daily kindnesses in your work life, and your personal life.  Then watch the wonderful things that happen, even if its that you know that you made someones day/week.

Until next time.

Peace.

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So, I’m a big baby sometimes.  And since before the holidays, I’ve needed to upgrade my WordPress blog to the newest version.  I finally got myself together today and did it.  And guess what?  It was really quite easy.  Such fuss over nothing!

Well, hold on now, I had fears, real fears, that if they had proven true would have been very devastating to my blog.  Thankfully, though, the sky remained in-tact and all is well (so far).  So, I thought I’d address something today that I’m currently struggling with, namely, when do you upgrade your technology?

Upgrading your technology is scary for several reasons, but the most profound in my opinion is fear of loss.  Losing control, losing a file, picture, etc. to the great abyss of the digital netherworld.  And here is the simple solution:  don’t care so much and you will either:

a. be fine or

b. lose everything or

c. lose some stuff

So, as you can see, logically speaking, you’re liable to lose some things, maybe all of them, but you are also likely to gain the use of your new upgrade and blissfully return to your explorations.  No harm no foul.  So, why get all worked up over possible nothing?  Amygdala.  Yes, I said it.  Amygdala.  The “animal brain” as it is known.  This part of your brain tells you two things:  fight or flee.  No, “hi, let’s talk.”  It’s either “them’s fightin’ words!” or “run!”

So, to combat this obnoxious brain reaction to new stuff, like technology, find a helper to walk you through the change you need to make.

A friend of mine just happened to be on Twitter and asked:   “anyone need help?”  And so I said, “yes!”  And he helped reassure me, and I was back on track.

Isn’t it funny sometimes how all we need is a little reassurance once in awhile to help us get through tough changes (or when you’re particularly needy like I was feeling)?

What are you putting off upgrading?  What are you going to do about it…you big baby?! ;-P

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Get Organized: Building Your Content Map

by RyanDecember 14, 2009 Communication

Now that my final exams are behind me, I am re-focusing my energy on cleaning and organizing, well, everything! I am notoriously disastrous when it comes to keeping up with, well, just about everything, so, I have to force myself to get organized.  When I do, I’m so happy.  Like deliriously happy.  Then I always [...]

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Dear TinyChat, You Suck

by RyanNovember 17, 2009 Uncategorized

Dear TinyChat, You Suck. Last night I was checking my Facebook and Twitter accounts and saw that Pete Cashmore (@mashable) and Gary Vaynerchuk  (@garyvee) were having a conversation together hosted by some PR lady (sorry, I forgot her name!) and I had the most excruciatingly bad time with your product. Whenever Gary or Pete would [...]

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Lucky Post: No. 19 – Gaga For Molly Lewis

by RyanNovember 12, 2009 Creativity

Welcome to Lucky Post:  No. 19 – Gaga For Molly Lewis. Today I have a great video for you in honor of my 19th post.  (19 is my lucky number.)  And today, I’ll share that luck with you. I started doing a Just For Fun post on Friday’s but I couldn’t wait for Friday to [...]

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U.S. Marine Corps Birthday & Veteran’s Day 2009

by RyanNovember 11, 2009 About Me

Yesterday was the 234th Birthday of the U.S. Marine Corps.  Happy Birthday Marines! Today is Veteran’s Day.  Thank you, veterans.  Thank you veterans’ families. Freedom is NOT free.  Freedom exacts a very high price.  The lives of our Soldiers, Airmen, Marines, Sailors, Coast Guardsmen, and Reservists.  Their blood, sweat, and tears are like the rain [...]

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15 Days Since My Last Post. Does That Make Me a Loser?

by RyanNovember 7, 2009 About Me

It has been 15 days since my last post.  That’s half a month. Wow, does that make me a loser?  Let’s find out. I could easily make excuses about not writing.  Writing is hard work.  It takes consistency.  It takes effort to write, especially when you don’t feel like it.  Sometimes because you’re not inspired, [...]

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Just for Fun Fridays: John Williams Tribute

by RyanOctober 23, 2009 About Me

This post is what I will call a “Just for Fun Fridays” post.  I will hopefully be serious and helpful every other day, but on Fridays I hope to start doing something silly, just because. If there is anything that I’ve learned over the years when it comes to work it’s this:   take it serious, [...]

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Quick Bio: Gary Vee In His Own Words

by RyanOctober 22, 2009 Biography

So, I was thinking it’s time now for part two of my Crush It! book review.  But, then I found this great video of Gary Vaynerchuk explaining his background, as well as some other great stuff, so I thought that I’d just post this for now. Gary gives you a great taste of what you’ll [...]

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